WHEN AT ROME, DO AS THE ROMANS DO (ending)
Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.
But nevertheless you should know bout recommended gifts, gifts to avoid, good and bad colours for wrapping paper in some countries. And of course it will be very good if you will know how present a gift to individuals and groups.
Gift Giving
Japan:
- Gift-giving is an important part of Japanese business protocol.
- An expensive gift will not be a bribe.
- Present gifts with both hands.
- Gifts are opened in private, because if the gift turns out to be a poor choice, “loss of face” will result.
- Before accepting a gift, it is polite to modestly refuse at least once or twice before finally accepting.
- Ensure that your gifts are wrapped. The safest gift-wrapping choices are pastel-colored papers, without bows.
Gifts to Avoid:
- Lilies, lotus blossoms, and camellias are associated with funerals. White flowers of any kind should be avoided.
- Giving four or nine of anything is considered unlucky.
- Red Christmas cards should be avoided, since funeral notices are customarily printed in this colour. There is also a superstition that potted plants encourage sickness.
China:
- Today, official policy in Chinese business culture forbids giving gifts; this gesture is considered bribery, an illegal act in this country. In many organizations, however, attitude to gifts are beginning to relax.
- The Chinese will decline a gift three times before finally accepting, so as not to appear greedy.
- If possible, have your gifts wrapped in red paper, which is considered a lucky colour.
- Wrapping in yellow paper with black writing is a gift given only to the dead.
Gifts to Avoid
- Numbers such as ‘73′ meaning ‘the funeral’ and ‘84′ meaning ‘having accidents’ are to be avoided.
- Scissors, knives, or other sharp objects
- The following items are to be avoided as they are associated with funerals: handkerchiefs, gifts or wrapping paper in white, black, or blue
The following items are to be avoided as they are associated with funerals: clocks, four of any item [the Cantonese word for “four” sounds similar, in the same language, to “death”]
India:
- Gift giving is customary in India, and is seen as a sign of friendship.
- It is advisable not to give expensive gifts, unless you are very close to the person.
- Normally, gifts are not opened in the presence of the giver. However, sometimes your Indian host may insist on your opening the gift, and would expect appreciation for his/her choice.
- Alcohol is culturally not accepted in most parts of India.
- Be cautious in giving a leather item as a gift. Since many Indians are vegetarians, they may not appreciate items made of leather.
Spain:
- In ordinary Spanish business culture, however, gifts are usually given only at the conclusion of successful negotiations.
- If you receive a gift, you should open it immediately and in front of the giver.
- When offering any gift, you should ensure that it is a high-quality item [perhaps a brand-name] and that it is finely wrapped.
- You should not give anything too extravagant as your generosity may be perceived as a bribe.
France:
- French business etiquette dictates that you don’t include your business card with a gift.
